Update and Changes

This will likely be my last post for awhile as I've decided I don't want to argue with the people in the transcommunity anymore and just want to get on with my life and changes I had planned and worked for but have struggled with the associated medical problems and financial issues.

It's also because I have a new plan to get through the changes and it doesn't involve anything or anyone in the transcommunity. I have all the medical and other professionals I need to change and don't plan to say anything more, as I tell friends, "It's personal and private and not open for public discussion."

I applaud younger and especially young transitioners who can be open and public - Tumblr is a good place to find them, and while it works for some transitioners, even older ones, it doesn't work and even sucks for some older people.

It's not about the person, they know who they are and what they want to do about their life. It's what people expect and don't like when they see or hear about people changing. I don't need or want it. I just want to live my life.

So I don't plan to post here except every now and then.  I've moved all the previous posts to draft and may bring some of them back in the future, but I don't think they do much for anyone else except let me think out loud.

Otherwise, thanks for readers. I wish you well.

Transmen

The problem with transmen is that they're just like men. It's what they want and who they want to become. And they wonder why after they transition women treat them just like other men.

The Difference

The difference between a cross-dresser and a woman (all inclusive, trans or otherwise) is really very easy and simple. The clothes define a cross-dresser. A woman defines her clothes.

For All the Reason

All the reason a cis-gendered woman tells a transwomen why the transwoman shouldn't transition are all the reasaons a transwoman wants to and should transition.

Why

The purpose of SRS is so the person reaches down between their legs and feels what they love than what they hate. It's that simple. Nothing more and nothing less.