Stealth

Why do women who pass after their transition discover being stealth is perfect and walk away from anything transgender, even their closest friends during their transition?

Yeah, the answer is obvious, and something almost all of them do, be stealth as much as you can be stealth (it's not 100%) because it's not just what the society considers normal, being a woman, but what they consider normal, being a woman.

They know not being stealth after your transition is the worst way to live and always being labelled transgender is the worst name to be called. Living stealth avoids all of it, and only those they choose to know or those who need to know will know the truth about them.

Yeah, the answer is obvious, and why is the easiest and simplest choice, and always the best choice.

Being stealth is being quietly invisible as a woman and away from the transgender community. No one wants to go back. No post-transition woman wants to go back to being transgender in the eyes of everyone and being a label to the transcommunity.

Yeah, the answer is obvious, so why does the transcommunity and the transactivists keep demanding being stealth isn't right when they know it is right for the person? Who wants to stand in the spotlight after years of their transition to be who they were and not who they are?

Yeah, the answer is obvious. It's just being a woman.